Why don't Black men want to date? ?

Black men seem to always just want to try and run over someones house and have quick . They never want to go out on a date and spend money. Everything has to be for free...Your house, your food, your facilities... They act like spending money on a woman is taboo. Now I am no free loader and have said that I would pay my own half of the bill, but they don't want to even do that. They are just cheap, promiscuous and lazy. I see there are some other races of men like that, but most will take you out to dinner and a drink before they try to have . I don't do on a first date and I do believe in paying my own way, but it is nice sometimes to have the man pay if he asks you out first and of course pay his own way! I wonder why Black men are this way? Sorry to all the Black men who aren't but too many of you are to just stay silent now. opinions?