I feel my wife is playing mind games with me, what should I do?

She sounds very manipulative, but it may be that she has issues with you that she finds it hard to talk about. Keep pushing her for answers but not in an aggressive manner as she will close up. These are the type of problems that counselling really helps with. Don't leave it much longer, seek some counselling. Edit: I haven't been on YA for long but i have noticed many people advicing others to give up on their marriage. Don't give up until you have tried everything. Marriage is not a breeze, you work at it.